Virgie a sweet-cutie-loving, n thoughtful child always humble with smooth n goofy humour.

From amanda cortez 2  virgie. Im holding ur hand.

I watched u grow up n babysat u.2. U were sweet-loving, n thoughtful child always humble, smooth n goofy.

U r unique made from god.

As life goes on we go thru r personal wilderness that is 2 help us grow with god n 2 god.

cuz we can’t do it alone. ( just like jesus did….he suffered like no other 4 r sins).

I have an invisible disease called fibromyalgia that is different 4 every 1. I have pain everywhere. I suffer with jesus so i learn more n more each day. Talk 2 him. He wants fellowship.

In the same way we do.

I felt like i was dying. But i know god has plans 4 me so he slowed my roll with pain. He is healing me, but i have 2 wk at it with prayer.

Just like cancer affects people differently.

My mamma was your god mother-right.

That means a lot cuz she prayed deeply 2 god 4 u as ur godmother.

embrace her prayers 2 god 4 u.

n ask god in your deepest darkest tears 2 help u love him deeply. Tell him ur lost n confused n need him.

Forget about ur friends.

Focus on god.

He will focus on you.

these daily moments with god will guide u.

Dear father. Please guide my loving young cousin  virginia 2 u.

Whatever wrong path she lay, push her 2 your light n right path.

On ur right side.

Let her pain not b in vain.

What is her purpose 4u on earth.

With great godly love.


In jesus heavenly high holy only name. Amen

Yes…many r ignorant. But we can’t judge.

Feel my prayers 4 u.
Text me anytime.

Below is commentary about scripture that helped me.

Read it everyday until u understand.

I’m hugging n giving u  bumble bee kisses.

Scripture 2 helpu.

Commentary on Genesis 32:22-31

Ask god 2 help u understand that god put pain on joseph (n re-named him Jacob) as a blessing-4 good reasons.+++

The story of Jacob’s wrestling with the angel provides an embarrassment of riches for homiletical possibilities.

There is the mysterious incarnation of God into human form; there is the act of wrestling which simultaneously connotes both intimacy and struggle, but ultimately yields a blessing; there is the theme of identity that is connected to one’s name — and, of course, there is the new name given to Jacob by God. In fact, this account is one of the most extensively interpreted stories from the book of Genesis, for good reason. Walter Brueggemann explains, “Its rich expository possibility is based in part on its lack of clarity, which permits various readings.”1 Though there is much in this text that is strange, or left open, the literary details demand a closer look and can yield even more exegetical treasures.

At the beginning of Genesis 32, preceding the lectionary pericope, Jacob has heard that his brother Esau is coming to meet him, accompanied by four hundred men (32:6). Jacob’s response is to panic (32:7), because he assumes Esau is coming to attack him (32:8). The subsequent verses narrate Jacob’s prayer to God for deliverance, and his plans of how to minimize the damages, plans that include sending a present to Esau, and dividing his camp.

Our text begins with Jacob sending his wives and children across the river Jabbok, an eastern tributary of the Jordan located about twenty miles north of the Dead Sea, at the border of Ammon (cf. Numbers 21:24, Deuteronomy 2:37 and 3:16, Joshua 12:2, Judges 11:22). The river’s name, Jabbok, plays on the name Jacob, and is related to the word “wrestle”).

Genesis 32:25 starts with the emphasis on Jacob’s solitude, and it is while Jacob is alone, in the night, at the ford of the Jabbok that a yet unidentified man wrestles with him. Perhaps Jacob thought his wrestling partner was Esau, though this mysterious man could also symbolize others with whom Jacob had wrestled in his life, including his father Isaac, or his father-in-law, Laban. There is very little detail given to any specifics about the wrestling match except for its length; it lasts until the dawn is about to break.

At that time, “he” sees that he is not able to prevail, and responds with a physical blow to Jacob’s thigh or hip (cf. 32:32). The NIV and NASB translate this action as “touched,” but the NRSV “struck” is also possible and could suggest more violence or force. Indeed, the result of the action is that Jacob’s leg is put out of joint. But still, Jacob does not let go. In 32:26, the wrestling partner voices his request that Jacob do so because the dawn is breaking. Terence Fretheim points out that the danger is not that God would be harmed by the daylight, but that Jacob would; “If Jacob holds on until daybreak, he is a dead man!”2 Jacob refuses to do so until he receives a blessing.

The blessing, though, does not immediately happen. Instead, a conversation about names ensues. In 32:27, we read, “And he said to him, ‘What is your name?’ And he answered, ‘Jacob.'” Jacob’s name has varyingly been translated as “heel/trickster/over-reacher/supplanter,”3  and Jacob must articulate this name, with all its connotations, to God. But God replies by doing two things: 1) identifying himself as the wrestling partner, and 2) by giving Jacob a new name (32:28). Jacob, then, wants to know God’s name, softening his request with the word “please” (32:29), but God responds with a question, asking Jacob why he asks. The text gives us no response from Jacob. Perhaps God’s question has silenced him. But if God’s question is the final word in the dialogue, it is not the final action: the last clause of 32:29 reports that God blessed Jacob.

The last we see of Jacob in this pericope, he names the place Peniel (“the face of God”) to represent his face-to-face encounter with God, and he limps away into the sunrise because of his hip. Immediately following our text, Genesis 33 recounts the meeting between Jacob and Esau. Before Jacob wrestled with God, he feared the encounter with his brother. But it proves to be a gracious one, and Jacob goes so far as to tell Esau, “I see your face as seeing the face of God” (33:10).

Jacob’s new name, Israel, is defined by the narrator in 32:28 as “he struggles (sarah) with God,” but its actual linguistic etymology is better translated as “God struggles” or “God rules.” That is, Jacob does not only wrestle with God, but God wrestles with Jacob. And it is costly for Jacob: he is marked and wounded after it, something that is meant to be remembered by all who follow the dietary restriction mentioned in the final verse of our text (32:32).

Frederick Buechner titled this story The Magnificent Defeat, a theme that is eloquently picked up by Ranier Maria Rilke in his poem, “The Man Watching.”4  The latter part of the poem says:

How small that is, with which we wrestle,
What wrestles with us, how immense;
Were we to let ourselves, the way things do,
Be conquered thus by the great storm–
We would become far-reaching and nameless.
What we triumph over is the small,
And the success itself makes us small.
The eternal and unexampled
Will not be bent by us.
This is the Angel, who appeared
To the wrestlers of the Old Testament:
When his opponent’s sinews
In that contest stretch like metal,
He feels them under his fingers
Like strings making deep melodies.

Whomever this Angel overcame
(who so often declined the fight)
He walks erect and justified
And great from that hard hand
Which, as if sculpting, nestled round him.
Winning does not tempt him.
His growth is this: to be
Deeply defeated by the ever-greater One.

Certainly, we all experience times when we feel as if we are wrestling with God. And many of us are marked by the wounds we have sustained from our struggles. This text reminds us that God is wrestling with us, and we grow in that process.

I think that a curious contextual observation may offer us a clue as to how we should interpret this text.  Prior to the wrestling match, Jacob seems to be in conflict with others routinely.  But after the match, we do not see him in any conflict again.  The closest we come is the flap over Dinah, but Jacob’s sons seem to take the lead in that conflict.  So, does this mark a pivot point in Jacob’s life, and thus in the progressive history of God’s people?  If so, what are we to understand about that point, and about the history before and after that point?


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Ignorant (lacking in knowledge) people can be so cruel!! I’m posting this because recently I have been mocked and laughed at for things beyond my control… I have one of these illnesses as do some of my friends…. Not one of my Facebook friends will copy and paste (but I am counting on a true family member or friend to do it). If you would be there for me no matter what then copy and paste this. I’m doing this to prove a friend wrong that someone is always listening. I care. Hard to explain to someone who has no clue. It’s a daily struggle being in pain or feeling sick on the inside while you look fine on the outside. Please put this as your status for at least 1 hour if you or someone you know has an invisible illness (IBS, Crohn’s, PTSD, Anxiety, Arthritis, Cancer, Heart Disease, Bipolar, Depression, Diabetes, Lupus, Fibromyalgia, MS, AS, ME, , Epilepsy, hereditary angioedema , AUTISM, Borderline personality disorder, M.D.,D.D.D., CFS, Histiocytosis, O.D.D, A.D.H.D, RSD, PBC,RLS ,COPD etc.) Never judge. I copied and pasted for all my friends who have one or more of these problems including endromitis.
For those who don’t know how to copy and paste on FB…hold your finger on this post until it you see copy, hit copy then go to status, hit status a new page comes up, hit into the white part and paste will show up and you’ve now copied and paste on FB and am praying for all those that are fighting these invisible illnesses.


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